INFERIORITY COMPLEX!?What is this? Where does it comes from? Why it arises?

All these questions are needed to understand properly.

When you feel you lack any luxury, emotional comforts, any quality in terms of beauty, talent and education and success and others have all these in your surroundings. It also arises due to lack of faith and trust in yourself and believing that you can’t acquire above said things in future and during your lifetime. It may also arise when people in your surroundings make you feel believe that…..YES; truly you lack things although it may not be true. BUT the question is that why people are so cruel and want you to believe this false notion? So the answer is that if this is the real reason of your?INFERIORITY COMPLEX , then it means actually you are a beautiful? and talented person who were made to believe false things about yourself. Moreover you can achieve wealth and success with your gifts. And people are insecure of this fact and don’t want you to know your real worth and talent and also that you become successful. It means people who are insecure in themselves and afraid of your success, are giving you inferiority complex! UNBELIEVABLE !

NOW THE NEXT QUESTION IS HOW?INFERIORITY COMPLEX AFFECT US?

Once you are arrested by INFERIORITY COMPLEX, you lack confidence. You lose your real self and start chasing others who are confident successful. You feel you can’t be like others and you can’t achieve all happiness which others have. Somewhere you feel you feel you don’t deserve all these because you are not lucky, beautiful, gifted so and so. You may curse your fate, blame god or your parents for not making you happy, gifted or strong like others. MELANCHOLY comes to you and every time you brood over these things. You become overconscious about your personality and want someone else to give you all these things which you can develop on your own. You chase people. And only disappointment comes at the end. You burn yourself with these useless thought of inadequacy. You don’t believe in yourself and never try to see or overlook your gift which is there inside you and waiting to come out of you but ALAS! your attention is on others not inside your heart. And you never get happiness. Your INFERIORITY COMPLEX makes you insecure. Inferiority complex gives birth to insecurity and which later gives birth to JEALOUSY.

We need to overcome this pattern of transforming negative emotions which gives birth to another negation emotion.

IN THE NEXT SECTION OF THIS ARTICLE I WILL BE DISCUSSING ABOUT JEALOUSY.

STAY TUNED

THANKS

MEHFISHA ANJUM

PSYCHOLOGIST AND HYPNOTHERAPIST